Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Together At Last!

It’s a little after 11 PM at night, we’re back at the hotel room and we’re doing great!  Only problem is, Max is wide awake.  He’s lying in his crib watching everything I’m doing.  If I go into the bathroom, he sits up and waits for me to come out, he’s keeping a constant watch on me.  So I decided to sit right next to the crib while writing this, hoping that since I am so close maybe he’ll fall asleep, it’s not working. 

So how did we get here today, I had another successful flight (see my earlier post about what makes for a successful flight and you’ll understand, right Julian!), however it was delayed for three hours but when it took off all went well.  Then it was a 3 ½ hour ride to the orphanage, we got there at 7:10 PM, much later than planned. 

They were waiting for us so we could do the required paperwork and signatures.  They said that they told Max this morning that I was coming to get him; they said he got his clothes right away and he kept looking for me at the door all day.  They said he was anxious all day.  They also told me he had a high fever this morning and gave me some medicine for him, but he doesn’t have a fever now.

I asked if I could see where Max sleeps.  They took me upstairs to his groups’ bedroom and he was sitting there in the clothes I had given them for him.  He looked at me with his little smile and said Mama!  Yes, he does remember me!   They showed me the crib he sleeps in and his playroom and let me take a couple of pictures.  Then it was time to start the journey to Max’ new home. 

I thanked them for taking such good care of him.  They wished us a happy and healthy life together and told me I need to bring him back to visit. 

Max made sure I was initiated as his new Mama quickly, about thirty minutes into the car ride he started throwing up and continued for about an hour.  I’m pretty sure he’s fine now; he’s a smiling happy boy in his crib!   Right now he’s playing peek-a-boo with his blanket. 

This is finally the start of our new life together!

Posted at 11:25 PM Moscow time.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

If I were Max I'd probably stay up all night! What an exciting day for both of you. So many new and exciting things for him today. What a great day all around (even the throw up - you know you are a real mom now!) Hope you get some sleep tonight. Thanks for the great news!

Paula

Anonymous said...

This is the wonderful news that we here at home have been waiting soooo long to hear. CONGRATULATIONS MAMA! CONGRATULATIONS MAXIM!

Roseann

Anonymous said...

All I can say is WOW! You did it Chris! A new life has begun for you, one with responsibility for raising a son. What joy as the two of you embark on this new and exciting chapter of your lives. GOD bless you both as return home. Love, Aunt Sandy

Julian and Sara said...

The dreamer, the unwoken fool...

Chris, I don't want to say anything to jinks the moment, but I am doing a jig around the room after reading your post (after opening a bottle of wine to celebrate, of course). This is fabulous news. Finally. I am not sure if I could express the happiness I feel for you right now - but I think that you would understand that.

As to the "staying awake" - you will only be doing this for the next 18 years (at least). Get used to it, Mama. MAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love the sound of that.

And the throwing up - you will only be seeing that for the next 18 years (at least). That is the boy part.

Seriously, though, spend the night looking (back) at him. This is such an incredible time. This is the start. Finally after all the love that has been lost along the way.

So we are raising a toast to you in this part of the world. And are absolutely delighted for both of you.

All the best.

Julian

Welby said...

Ah man, I'm soooo excited for you Chris! I can't wait to tell my husband Duncan that you finally have gotten your boy and become a Mom! Oh, I'm dying to see photos of your wee Max. I don't know if you have any posted on this blog, but I can't seem to find any...well, in due time I suppose, but I'm really excited this is all finally coming together for you! Congratulations! Welby

Katie said...

Let's review, you've got a wide eyed, overtired child looking back at you and you've been puked on...repeatedly..sounds like your initiation into motherhood is well underway! In all seriousness, congratulations!! Be amazed by it, be overwhelmed by it but most of all, savor it!

Anonymous said...

This is the greatest news! Howard and I are so happy for you! You will make a great mom!

We all love you and Max and wish you a safe journey home!

Anonymous said...

Welcome to the Motherhood Club! There's no manual that comes with it, but we are all here to lend out support...CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Can't wait to meet Max, he's one lucky boy!

We love you both, Lisa

Anonymous said...

YEAH !! Congratulations !

way to go Max .. get right into it ... throw up and then stay up all night! good for you ... :)

I am sure it is all good with you Chris ... enjoy your motherhood journey !

Cyndi xxoo

Anonymous said...

I have chills up and down my spine. Mazel Tov, Mama. Can't wait to meet my new nephew.

Love,
Maureen